Knowing that the media can play a strong role in shaping how children see themselves , many parents come to view television as a mixed blessing. On the one hand, lots of television programs are educational, and can provide over-worked parents with a way to entertain the kids for a few minutes while meals are prepared or little sister's diapers are changed. On the other, even 'family friendly' programs might include messages dangerous to a kid's self-esteem - and the commercials are sure to play-up all the gender stereotypes that could help build better little consumers . So, what are feminist moms and dads (and feminist aunts, uncles, and babysitters) to do? We clearly want kids to benefit from the good , but not be exposed to the bad .

Petpluto of Art at the Auction believes her parents handled the TV dilemma just right :

...My parents believed strongly that commercials and consumerist culture infused people with negative opinions of themselves... Because of that, I mostly watched PBS. I watched Sesame Street, and Reading Rainbow, and Mr. Rogers Neighborhood, and This Old House. When other girls had crushes on the New Kids on the Block, I was in love with Bob Villa (and thought The New Kids on the Block were really kids who were new to my particular block). While other girls were watching commercials about barbies or playhouses or easy bake ovens, I was watching Maria and Luis fix toasters and Linda and Bob and Susan and Gordon deal with Big Bird...

Television watching was sort of an old fashioned event; instead of everyone going off to their separate spaces and watching what they wanted to, we sat in a central location and watched, well, generally what my parents wanted to. We would watch, and discuss what we saw. We discussed how the Japanese were depicted during World War II in Loony Tunes cartoons and that morphed into a talk about Japanese internment camps. Later, Buffy the Vampire Slayer was used to discuss things like sexuality, feminism, and pop culture references...

The rest of the post (inspired by our series! ) is an entertaining and informative read, so go visit Petpluto at her home . Of course, her post prompts the obvious questions - what was your exposure to television and other types of media when you were growing up, and how did it effect you? How can we help the smallest members of the next generation cope with troublesome messages in the media all around them?

Finally, because I just can't resist Miriam's call for a little reminiscing about 'good' TV , I'd like to present The Edison Twins:



(modified slightly and cross-posted from The Feminist Underground )

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