It seems the internet has figured out that I'm a girl. For some reason for the last few months, every ad on every site I go to, even male-dominated ones, is for something marketed at women. From romantic comedy banner ads featuring smiling pictures of some actor who was on Grey's Anatomy, to obviously fake "Before and After" photos plugging some new diet pill or anti-aging product.
It's the second set that bothers me most. Every where I go someone tries to sell me something to make me look better. Even in the mall, young women at kiosks accost me trying to sell me lotions and mineral make-up. It seems that almost everything marketed to women has something to do with appearance. Most women have at some point in their lives looked in the mirror and not liked what they saw. Corporations use that feeling to try to sell women products that don't work and that they don't need.
It doesn't have much affect on me anymore because I've decided that I like the way I look. I like my body, I like my face, and I like my skin. I don't need diet pills, I'm skinny enough. I don't need expensive make-up, I'm young enough. I don't need Clearasil, my skin is clean enough. In face, I think the vast majority of women don't need those products. In my experience, diet pills do nothing or at least not enough to be worth your money. There's a reason they tell you to diet and exercise along with taking the pills. The pills just don't do that much. They're hoping you'll lose weight by living healthier but think it's because of the pills and keep giving them money.
In fact, I think the vast majority of beauty products marketed at women don't work. My mother has tried every anti-aging product on the market and has used many of them for months on end. I've never noticed the least bit of difference. It doesn't matter, her skin is nice and I don't think she needs to be using that stuff anyway. I think that's the case with most women who buy all that crap. They've convinced themselves that they're ugly and they're willing to use anything they can find to make themselves look better. Because, for most of them, the reason they need the product is all in their head, the results will be either all in their head, or completely unrelated to the product in question.
There must be a real problem with women not liking how they look, or else so much money wouldn't be made off it. They hardly ever try to sell that sort of crap to men.


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Great post, I completely agree. I get so many ads on sites like facebook for weight loss plans and what not. I feel like even products that could be for both genders get marketed at women, like whitening toothpastes on TV. Like a lot of people I've struggled and still struggle with aspects of my appearance and it's frustrating when every time i see one of these ads I wonder if my skin isn't clear enough or whatever, and i need to drop another $50 on some other "miracle" cure. Boo, advertising, we all look great!
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There must be a real problem with women not liking how they look, or else so much money wouldn't be made off it. They hardly ever try to sell that sort of crap to men.
I think you have it backwards: The beauty and fashion industries, through advertising, are the main cause of our physical insecurities. Would we spend so much time and money on makeup, clothes, jewelry, diet aids, etc., if we were happy and content about the way we look? Don't think so. Not nearly as much, anyway!
As for the men, I think the marketers have realized they can make men body-conscious as well. Note the proliferation of men's grooming products, not to mention the whole 'metrosexual' phenomenon. Guys obsessed with body hair, weight & fashion are pretty common now - and I'm not just talking about gay men, in case you're wondering.
There's nothing wrong with taking care of your appearance, but if you find yourself hating your body, don't forget that corporations are getting rich from making you feel bad about yourself...
So true!
Diet pills can also be EXTREMELY dangerous in addition to not working at all. If they actually worked, a lot more people would be skinny!
Tarvn: Diet pills are indeed unhealthy and addictive, But to say they "don't work", at least in the context of weight loss is to diminish the threat they contain. Most of the traditional 'bad for you" diet pills are some kind of metabolic enhancer/accelerant. The most recent one I'm aware of if Phen Fen, but when I was a kid it was prescription methamphetamine, usually "cross tops" or "black beauties", and people took them for weight loss or to have long study sessions.
They did work to make the user loose weight too, because the effects of speed are loss of appetite and more energy. Less caloric intake and more caloric use. But the fact that they worked is part of why they are so dangerous.
Just like steroids, which also work as advertised, someone who is miserable about their body might be dissuaded by a dangerous and expensive product that didn't work, but if it does indeed work the danger is easily overlooked.