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Fat people are ok...

I'm watching this movie "Queen Sized" on Lifetime. I missed the beginning, and it's not over yet, but it's starting to really piss me off. It's about an "overweight" teen who runs for homecoming queen- that's what iO cable tells me anyway. Aside from the overacting, and the generalized plot, and extreme characters, I think the message is supposed to be good. Except that's hard to believe because everytime the main character has some sort of emotional issue she shoves food down her throat. Literally. Her character throws all the other food out of the freezer to get to the ice cream, then sits on the floor with it crying and eating after telling her brother to "GET OUT!"

Um.. Whaa? Thanks Lifetime- because all women who don't fit socially normative weight standards must shove food down their throats to get that way. What the Fk.

And at every commercial there are weight loss commercials for diet pills, work out equipment and the like.

My head is exploding right now. Happy Freakin New Year, everyone.

Posted by T-monster - December 31, 2008, at 05:18PM | in Body Image
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That's uh, an eating disorder. People have them sometimes.

I didn't know anybody still watched Lifetime (kidding). That sounds pretty typical. The best thing about Lifetime television is the Lifetime Movie Title Generator. At least it makes you laugh sometimes.

I skipped right over that channel when I saw that movie was on.

Laina, eating ice cream when you're sad isn't an eating disorder. That's called "home alone on a Saturday night watching re-runs of Judge Judy" in my house, and I almost look forward to it. A movie on "television for women" shouldn't be pathologizing comfort eating or making out plus-sized women to be overly emotional eating machines.

Not to mention that females, as a rule, turn to Ben and Jerrys for emotional support regardless of their weight.

As a rule, I stay away from Lifetime movies unless I want to spend the day being an Angry Feminist (TM).

Haha. Point taken. It was definitely an Angry Feminist inducer. I hadn't watched LT in years and I remember why now. But it had Nikki Blonsky in it (from Hairspray) so I felt compelled to watch it! Thankfully I got saved from the end by NYE guests arriving.

Isn't it a killer when an actor or actress you really like stars in one? I'm always torn between trying to enjoy the person and just saying no.

I mean, compulsive over-eating. The way the OP described it was someone going all bonkers on their freezer to irrationally and potentially compulsively over-eating a bunch of ice cream. I mean, it could be emotional eating, or it could be compulsive over-eating. I guess my mental image was more intense than was actually portrayed because of the language used in the original post (I haven't actually seen the movie). I just wanted to point out that maybe the chick in the movie was supposed to be a compulsive over-eater (in the disordered sense, which is not to say that all non-skinnies are disordered).

It's generally a good idea to stay away from Lifetime movies. I only watch the channel for Golden Girls reruns.

Laina,
Although the movie might be addressing eating disorders, I've found that many people make the assumption that fat people continuously eat. Unless the movie deliberately tries to make it known that the main character isn't just an overweight person, but a person with an eating disorder, then chances are they're just reinforcing the same old idea of a fat person who can't stop eating ice cream.

I just want to clarify one little bit about the movie since I wrote the post pretty quickly, and it's come up on the thread. That said, it did not even remotely address eating disorders. I highly doubt the film makers intended the character to have an eating disorder, since their conceptualization of plus sized women was inherently narrow, hence my annoyance. The plot was about people accepting her for who she is, and not seeing her size, and all those warm fuzzies. The scenes where she went binge eating were random and totally over the top. It's like the producer stuck the scenes in with the rest of the plot specifically to make plus sized women look like emotional over-eaters. More likely, that's what film makers assume the truth is, which is depressing/frustrating/annoying, etc. The whole thing was poorly done, but it is LT after all. Sigh.

[0+] Author Profile Page Abby B. said:

Didn't you know that the only reason women are ever fat is because we're emotional pigs who eat whenever our hormones overwhelm us?

On one hand, I've seen many a woman, and many a man, and many a person in general want some damn chocolate at the end of a rough day. And to say, just because you're a beautiful fat person, we can't show you eating, is dumb. (Anyone remember the video to "Listen Up" by The Gossip? I was watching it with one of my friends and when Beth Ditto ate that pizza she was all like "Should she really be doing that?" and I said "Are you kidding me? She's a total revolutionary! This is fucking awesome!")

On the other hand, I'm offended that they'd structure the whole damn movie to suggest she did have an unhealthy attitude towards food (Food will not solve your problems. Booze, gambling, drugs, and your obsession with miniature porcelain cats won't, either.) and then refuse to address it.

I thought the movie did show a compulsive eating disorder. One of the character's triumphs was turning away from compulsive eating, NOT getting skinny.

I'm well aware of the negative stigma against fat in this culture, but there's also a terrible stigma against eating disorders and mental illness which is also destructive.

The fat binge eater is getting hit from two sides, one from mainstream culture that pathologizes fat, reducing one to their body and the other, a fat acceptance movement which refuses to acknowledge eating disorders and shuns the idea that fat people are out of control emotional eaters. For the fat person that is indeed out of control and in emotional pain coming forward can feel like being a traitor.

Bitch magazine did a pretty good article about this about a year ago : http://bitchmagazine.org/article/big-trouble .

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