Its no secret people use craigslist to find ways to get their rocks off, so to speak. Unless your head has been buried in the sand, a medical student has been accused of the craigslist killing and attacking a masseuse. News reports have been out about the fiance wanting to stand by her man. People are wondering how she could not know he led a double life and automatically calling her a codependent. Its easy to say if that happened to me, I would end the relationship. We don't know what she is really going through. Just hearing what the media has chosen to sensationalize. Is it her fault and is she really in denial about her fiance? How embarrassing for her and her family.
I am not saying she should deny everything, but the issue I have is she is already being blamed for "not knowing he had a double life". Isn't that why the term double life exists? Its interesting to know how brilliant these people are about leading a double life, but don't realize the truth will come out. The classic blame the woman. I think she is still in shock about her fiance being accused. I hope and pray the fiance does what she really knows is right. I think she knows deep down, but does not want to face the truth yet. Its hard to realize someone you love and trust has a dark, evil side. The media needs to stop attacking her and I hope she has family and good friends standing by her. Honestly, I feel bad for her and hope she finds the strength to face the truth and get some help. You think you know someone, but don't.
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Update: Wedding to craigslist killer called off.
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/us_craigslist_killing
I would say she is facing the reality of her ex-fiance. Also read some reports he had a collection of women's underwear and handcuffs. Questions are likely being asked of how she could not know? Again, stuff likely well hidden. I am glad to hear its over.
Yeah, for real. This guy was a sociopath who was good at hiding his double life. Obviously, his fiance is NOT the only one in shock and denial. His parents must be shocked, too.
This is always the case with sociopathic serial killers. You think you know them, but you really don't. Nobody ever does...