Tonight I found myself in the mood to view some porn, but my dilemma became the lack of porn that focuses the camera an equal amount on the male participant and the female participant. As a straight woman, I have little desire to watch massive breast implants bounce all over the place or be forced to listen fake moan after fake moan until the fake orgasm is finally achieved, but it is truly hard to find unbiased sites. It is far easier to find submissive porn, lesbian porn, and fetish porn than to find a pornographic film in which a woman does not “put on a show” for the camera without having to subscribe to shady websites or purchase DVDs. This is completely ridiculous to me because it is so incredibly simple to find free porn that heavily objectifies women.
Any suggestions, arguments, or input?
All of the above would be greatly appreciated 
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Err, well.
I don’t a family oriented site like Feministing.com would welcome porn addresses, so I’ll resist posting anything. But maybe amateur sites are to your taste?
Google’s your friend!
Since when has Feministing ever been a “family oriented site”?
I mostly look at amateur sites because everything is real. Not sure I want to post any links though… but there are lots out there. Still sometimes have to comb through to find good stuff but depends on your tastes.
There’s also been a massive rise in material made by women for women. Other then amateur that’s been the biggest growing area for years now. But I’m not sure how much of that you can get for free and I understand if you don’t want to buy videos.
But bottom line is there is tons of good stuff out there… I look at it regularly, you just have to look for it. Maybe ask some of your friends who may be more willing to share links and such with you. Or visit a local adult store and ask there.
My solution for the porn problem (Is unorthodox, but it gets me off, so… take it with a grain of salt) is gay porn. Watching two guys get it on. For straight women, I think it would be basically a mathematical equation: one hot guy + another hot guy = double the hotness. For lesbians like myself, it provides a sexy scenario when I don’t have to worry about BEING the object of desire.
*shrug* There’s no one answer for the ‘what gets women off’ question, so poke around a little.
I understand what you’re saying. Most hetero porn has women as the focus with the man just being a “stand in” – like a disembodied penis the viewer can replace himself with from the camera point. First I suggest going to an adult store to find DVDs instead of looking online. Swank and Jules Jordan (production houses) are good for what you described you’re looking for. Otherwise you could find some good ones in the bisexual genre.
Thanks for all of your input! And Jacqueline, I’ve tried the gay porn thing before and it’s totally hot until they actually start going at it, then I’m not really turned on by it. Thanks again y’all!